How can a random college nerd find a girl that is not:?

a) in a relationship


b) unattainable


c) way too young for me


d) way too old for me


e) uninterested in my existence


f) 500 miles away


g) lesbian





It looks impossible!

How can a random college nerd find a girl that is not:?
Keep your head up my friend.A girl will come along. And have fun choosing the right one for you. I wish you all the best. It's tough but I have faith in ya 100%
Reply:dont worry about it, if you are a nerd that means you are probably doing well in school and will make big bucks when you get out and that will attract them like flies.
Reply:Turn your nerdiness into $.


When women reach the age of 27 or so, most realize they'd rather have $ than a tatooed girlfriend-beating "badboy".


That's when we reap the rewards.
Reply:I dunno where you get most of that. Sure, u just have to look. And heck, they might be right in front of you. I mean literally too. Nerdy guy right? Well your in college, maybe, or maybe you won't until you get a job. When she's mature, or wants the real thing. Or something else.
Reply:g that's the best
Reply:Join clubs and organizations that are socially active and reflect your interests. I met my husband (who is a pretty big nerd) and all my friends in the marching band. We're all nerds! Our parties are great!
Reply:Perhaps, you should stop being a 'nerd'.
Reply:go to match.com hahahahahahahahah
Reply:try yahoo personals , look for girls in your area . you will find someone
Reply:a.) Many girls in college are not in relationships...ask them they'll tell you.


b.) Stop with the whining (unattainable) you sound like some kinda of puzz...no girl is unattainable...none you hear me...now stop acting like a whining sissy or thats what others will think.


c.) Dude, your in college...if they're in college then they aren't too young.


d.) by the sound of it you'de be lucky to dust off some old crow and get to her take her teeth out for a gumjob...don't underestimate an experinced lady fella...you've got a lot to learn.


e.) make your self interesting Einstein...stop putting up your own obstacles....geeeezz


f.) don't date chicks from 500 miles away....ok if you want to bang them for a one night stand but forget it...find a girl who is on campus


g.) Lesbian.....see if she's got a friend...now your cooking homer....stop with all the negative....maybe she's not lesbian but bi...huh....that ever dawn on you?





Nothing is impossible!! there is nothing to fear but fear itself azzwipe....now pull up your panties and go out there and get some!!!
Reply:Find someone who likes the things you like...





Go to meetings of groups or societies and see who is there... Talk, listen and learn...





Don't act desperate... ;)
Reply:HAVE YOU CONSIDERED JACKIN' OFF?
Reply:research.
Reply:Lower your expectations ;-)
Reply:I'm a big fan of eharmony.com. That's where I met my husband (and he only lived 10 miles away) :)





My recommendation is to be yourself and be social. Join a club or activity to create opportunities to meet people. As you meet people - some of those people will be women and eventually one of those women will meet your criteria. It is a lot easier to meet people when you are in college and surrounded by people your own age. When you graduate, it will be much harder.
Reply:ohh my... im 19, but the only problem is a live a million miles away from where you are.. poor me.. mwaaahhh!!!
Reply:As a nerd you should be superlative in some subject. Some women are turned on by a large cerebral cortex. They are out there. And they are thinking the same thing you are in reverse.
Reply:Close...Are you sure about that letter d) thing? LOL! Good luck!
Reply:Nothing is Impossible! There is someone out there for you just keep looking and reaserching......
Reply:Tough one brother. Being a nerd will pan out in time, as yes girls will be more attracted in how smart (and wealthy) you are.





Sense of humour is the key. Dont take yourself too seriously, dont seem over keen, be confident, be attentive and dont give a f@#k if you bomb out! Seriously.





There are hot girls on the net in your area. Try approach them as friends on non-dating social sites - look for things in common and get in touch - make em laugh and be DIFFERENT!!(hairofthedog.co.uk is a cool social site i use)





Good luck my brother





Dan Hefner
Reply:The trick is to catch one early in the semester before she meets the other guys in her classes.





Don't set your standards too high though. Start out small. Just date someone who's easy to talk to. If a hottie sees you with an average looking chik, she'll be all over you. Just make sure you don't hurt your old girlfreinds feelings, break it off smooth like, then its off to hot babe city!








Good luck man!
Reply:I think the search starts with you, yourself !


CHange that definition tha you have of yourself: 'Nerd' !


What is that ?


Then change the definition of the 'person' you want ...


Then you might see things more clearly and the unobtainable simply becomes within reach ... IF you know what you want, that is ;^)





Good Luck :^)
Reply:improbible
Reply:good luck....
Reply:There r so many sites nowadays to find out a partner with the desired qualities. Go ahead and browse thru those sites. Place an ad in the newspaper or the internet, maybe there's such a girl searching out for a guy like u.
Reply:Words of advice: Be what you want. You attract people on your level or below generally (once in a while people do get lucky and have someone obviously way above their league interested but that doesn't happen very often.) If you are finding the girls that are interested in you to not be physically appealing, take a good look at yourself. Are you someone that is physically appealing? And any aspect of your being can be applied to that really. Personality, intellegence, etc. Become what you want. Work on yourself first, the girls that you will find attractive will come when you are also attractive to them. Self confidence will come with each thing you do to better yourself, and that can go a long way to impressing someone.
Reply:If you look hard enough I think you could
Reply:Well treat the girl nice and take her out and buy her things and show the girl that you migght have a nice personality and she migght fall for you but dont let her use you just because you have brains and dont give her no trust or love because she might break your heart.