I met awonderful girl online, but lied to her bout me b/c all we wanted was cyber.How do I tell her the truth?

At 1st, we met in an AIM chatroom and were both looking for the same thing: an easy way to get off. I sent her a random picture of a goodlooking guy I found on the internet b/c I didn’t think she’d be attracted to me then.I never thought I’d talk to her again. We continued talking. We have developed a good friendship and more but basically I know she truly likes “me,” and I truly like her. These past few weeks it's been eating at me. It’s all I can think about, and it’s truly one of the things I regret the most in my life. I never wanted to hurt her, all I want is for our relationship to be honest. I have known her for long, there is no “trust” issue on my behalf of who she is, but she thinks I am someone I am not. She is truly one of the most wonderful people I have ever known, and I cannot bear the idea that I kept myself from her. I can’t keep this up.I want to know her in real life, we might be able to have something between us. How best do I tell her the truth? I can't lie anymore

I met awonderful girl online, but lied to her bout me b/c all we wanted was cyber.How do I tell her the truth?
You said it already in your question. You thought it was a one night cyber thing. It was an impulsive act. She obviously likes the guy she has been talking to. She likes your words and your thoughts. You should tell her right away, but with an explanation that you never meant to mislead her, that you thought she was a transient gift brought to you for the night. Tell her that when you realized she wasn't transient and that your relationship would be long and lasting, you wanted to clear this picture thing up. Then, send her a real picture or three of you. Tell her you understand if she is upset about this, but you beg her forgiveness and understanding. If she has the character that you think she has, she will forgive. If she does not forgive, maybe she wasn't as wonderful as you thought she was.





Give her the gift of the real you and she may reveal to you the gift of the real her. Good luck.
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